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		<title>King Harry and Queen Nancy Are Keeping Your Gas Prices High</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2008 15:50:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Gas prices in the U.S. rose above $4.00 a gallon for a number of reasons: speculation, a weakening dollar, perception of short supply. We all know this. What is keeping prices hovering around $4.00 a gallon, though, are the antics of your two favorite Democrat members of Congress: King Harry Reid of Nevada, and Queen [...]]]></description>
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<p>Gas prices in the U.S. rose above $4.00 a gallon for a number of reasons: speculation, a weakening dollar, perception of short supply. We all know this.</p>
<p>What is keeping prices hovering around $4.00 a gallon, though, are the antics of your two favorite Democrat members of Congress: King Harry Reid of Nevada, and Queen Nancy Pulosi of California.</p>
<p>These two members of Democrat royalty <strong>want </strong>to keep gas prices rising. They <strong>WANT </strong>you to pay more at the pump. They don&#8217;t think you&#8217;re paying enough. They think that premium energy prices will force a move to alternative energy sources. They are deliriously happy because now they don&#8217;t even have to pass a &#8220;don&#8217;t use the carbon&#8221; tax.</p>
<p>You think Bush is in the pocket of Big Oil? King Harry and Queen Nancy are in the pocket of Big Enviro. When Big Enviro says &#8220;jump&#8221;, all the King and Queen do is ask, &#8220;how high?&#8221;</p>
<p>They have basically shut down the Congress to avoid having anything energy-related come to a floor vote, because they know they&#8217;d lose. Constituents are pressing their representatives in both the Senate and the House to do something about energy prices &#8212; repeal the prohibitions and restrictions on offshore drilling and drilling in ANWR. The last figure I heard was 76% of Americans favor relaxing restrictions on drilling.</p>
<p>Shocked at the price of food lately?</p>
<p>Guess what it takes to get food from the farm to the store. Ahh, you got it&#8211;diesel fuel. What about the packaging? What do you think is one of the necessary ingredients for the plastic bottles that everything comes packaged in? Right again&#8211;oil.</p>
<p>And we&#8217;re not even talking yet about the price of corn, the stuff that enviro-ethanol is made from. Because of mandated food-for-fuel policies of the enviro-Dems, corn prices have tripled over the last year.</p>
<p>And you think Democrats stand for the &#8216;little guy&#8217;? King Harry and Queen Nancy spit in your eye.</p>
<p>They&#8217;re telling you, straight to your face, &#8220;We don&#8217;t give half a shit that it costs you double to feed your family. <em>Eat noodles.</em></p>
<p>&#8220;We don&#8217;t <strong><em>care </em></strong>that you can&#8217;t afford to drive to work. <em>Ride the bus.</em></p>
<p>&#8220;We don&#8217;t <em><strong>care </strong></em>about the hardship you&#8217;re going through. <em>Deal with it.</em></p>
<p>&#8220;Our Lord AlGore, in his infinite wisdom (not to mention all the enviro-peeps who give us campaign money), says that you need to sacrifice for the good of the planet. <em>You have to give up the oil.</em></p>
<p>&#8220;We don&#8217;t <em><strong>care </strong></em>that there&#8217;re no real alternatives.</p>
<p>&#8220;We don&#8217;t <em><strong>care </strong></em> that what we&#8217;re doing will probably send us and the world into economic depression.</p>
<p>&#8220;High oil prices? Best thing since sliced bread! They&#8217;re not high enough!</p>
<p>&#8220;You don&#8217;t like it? Too bad, so sad. We run the country, just the two of us, and you don&#8217;t. <strong>Fuck off.</strong>&#8220;</p>
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		<title>The Science of Getting Rich &#8211; A Summary</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Oct 2007 16:29:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Following is the contents of Chapter 17 of The Science of Getting Rich, by Wallace D. Wattles. Through the course of the book, Wattles develops and amplifies on these statements and considers them to be the essential points that anyone practicing the art of conscious creation must master. Without further ado: There is a thinking [...]]]></description>
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<p><strong>Following is the contents of Chapter 17 of <em>The Science of Getting Rich</em>, by Wallace D. Wattles. Through the course of the book, Wattles develops and amplifies on these statements and considers them to be the essential points that anyone practicing the art of conscious creation must master. Without further ado: </strong></p>
<p>There is a thinking stuff from which all things are made, and which, in its original state, permeates, penetrates, and fills the interspaces of the universe.</p>
<p>A thought in this substance produces the thing that is imaged by the thought.</p>
<p>Man can form things in his thought, and by impressing his thought upon formless substance can cause the thing he thinks about to be created.</p>
<p>In order to do this, man must pass from the competitive to the creative mind; otherwise he cannot be in harmony with the Formless Intelligence, which is always creative and never competitive in spirit.</p>
<p>Man may come into full harmony with the Formless Substance by entertaining a lively and sincere gratitude for the blessings it bestows upon him. Gratitude unifies the mind of man with the intelligence of Substance, so that man&#8217;s thoughts are received by the Formless. Man can remain upon the creative plane only by uniting himself with the Formless Intelligence through a deep and continuous feeling of gratitude.</p>
<p>Man must form a clear and definite mental image of the things he wishes to have, to do, or to become; and he must hold this mental image in his thoughts, while being deeply grateful to the Supreme that all his desires are granted to him. The man who wishes to get rich must spend his leisure hours in contemplating his Vision, and in earnest thanksgiving that the reality is being given to him. Too much stress cannot be laid on the importance of frequent contemplation of the mental image, coupled with unwavering faith and devout gratitude. This is the process by which the impression is given to the Formless, and the creative forces set in motion.</p>
<p>The creative energy works through the established channels of natural growth, and of the industrial and social order. All that is included in his mental image will surely be brought to the man who follows the instructions given above, and whose faith does not waver. What he wants will come to him through the ways of established trade and commerce.</p>
<p>In order to receive his own when it shall come to him, man must be active; and this activity can only consist in more than filling his present place. He must keep in mind the Purpose to get rich through the realization of his mental image. And he must do, every day, all that can be done that day, taking care to do each act in a successful manner. He must give to every man a use value in excess of the cash value he receives, so that each transaction makes for more life; and he must so hold the Advancing Thought that the impression of increase will be communicated to all with whom he comes in contact.</p>
<p>The men and women who practice the foregoing instructions will certainly get rich; and the riches they receive will be in exact proportion to the definiteness of their vision, the fixity of their purpose, the steadiness of their faith, and the depth of their gratitude.</p>
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		<title>Why Are You Here?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jun 2007 04:29:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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<p>On earth, I mean. What&#8217;s your reason for being here? What is your purpose?</p>
<p>Do you even care?</p>
<p>I mean, let&#8217;s face it: for most of us, life is a series of events that happen to us, strung out over a period of years. We&#8217;re born, we struggle, we die. What&#8217;s my purpose for the day? To get through until tomorrow. One day at a time, one day to the next. Some high points, more than a few low points, but mostly just . . . surviving.</p>
<p>If that resembles you, and you&#8217;re tired of it, here&#8217;s a book that can help: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html%3FASIN=1600700241%26tag=sawtoothgraph-20%26lcode=xm2%26cID=2025%26ccmID=165953%26location=/o/ASIN/1600700241%253FSubscriptionId=1N9AHEAQ2F6SVD97BE02"><em>Life on Purpose: Six Passages to an Inspired Life</em></a>, by Dr. Brad Swift.</p>
<p>As I read the book, something that I&#8217;d heard Neale Walsch say in the movie <em>The Secret</em> kept popping in my mind. He said people look around for the big blackboard in the sky, upon which is written their purpose in life. If they can just find the blackboard, everything will be all right. But, he says, the blackboard doesn&#8217;t exist. So, your purpose is what you say it is.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html%3FASIN=1600700241%26tag=sawtoothgraph-20%26lcode=xm2%26cID=2025%26ccmID=165953%26location=/o/ASIN/1600700241%253FSubscriptionId=1N9AHEAQ2F6SVD97BE02" title="Click and drag this image to the post editor"><img src="http://ec1.images-amazon.com/images/I/21qCIUMILDL.jpg" align="left" hspace="5" width="107" /></a>And you have a purpose, whether you realize it or pay attention to it or not. Your purpose, the meaning of your life, is what you say it is, every morning when you get up. It&#8217;s what guides you through the day.</p>
<p>Is your purpose a meaningful one? What if you could change your perception of your life, revise your focus, make changes in the way you think, feel, and act, and do it in a step-by-step methodical way? What if you had a roadmap to guide you? What if you had someone sitting there in the passenger seat as a guide, showing you the way, teaching you how to slow down and actually live <strong>for </strong>something? Dr. Brad is just that&#8211;a coach that can help you rediscover your reason for being, if you want to.</p>
<p>Dr. Swift not only shows you how to clarify your purpose in life&#8211;the step-by-step roadmap&#8211;but also gives the &#8220;why&#8221; of what you&#8217;re doing. When you understand why something works, you can adapt and reapply that same concept in other areas of your life, in other situations. Instead of just memorizing a step, you&#8217;ve learned a technique.</p>
<p>The first step is to take the first step . . . and the first step is to read Dr. Swift&#8217;s book, and act upon what you read. The rest will unfold. . .</p>
<p style="border: 1px solid #880000; margin: 40px 30px 15px; padding: 5px; background: #efefff none repeat scroll 0% 50%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial">This is Stop #6 on the <a href="http://lifeonpurpose.typepad.com/life_on_purpose_weblog/2007/05/book_blog_tour_.html">Book Blog Tour</a>, a special event highlighting Dr. Brad Swift&#8217;s new book, <em>Life on Purpose: Six Passages to an Inspired Life.<br />
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<small>This post was <strong>not</strong> a paid review. I was furnished a complimentary copy of Dr. Swift&#8217;s book for the purpose of review.</small></p>
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		<title>Do You Make These Mistakes In Attracting Wealth?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 May 2007 21:43:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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<p>Those of us who know the basics of the Law of Attraction know that &#8220;thoughts become things&#8221;. So we embark on our life-changing journey, excited about the wonderful way life will be. Some people have more success at it than others. Those people keep building on what they&#8217;ve learned, attracting more of what they want, expanding the horizons of their imagination and belief, seemingly growing by leaps and bounds.</p>
<p>Then there are the rest of us.</p>
<p>&#8216;The rest of us&#8217; is, by most accounts, a rather large group. We&#8217;re not in the &#8216;non-believer&#8217; group, but we just haven&#8217;t, for whatever reasons, been able to consciously create our lives as well as we would like to.</p>
<p>So the question is, &#8220;Why not?&#8221; Thankfully, we have kept the faith in the Law&#8211;we know it works. We haven&#8217;t become members of the group that say, &#8220;This stuff doesn&#8217;t work.&#8221; We haven&#8217;t given up. But what to do?</p>
<p>My answer? Study, examine what you&#8217;re doing, how you&#8217;re thinking, adjust, do it again. The basic <a href="http://www.thefastlane.info/2006/05/28/the-ultimate-success-formulagetting-what-you-want/"><strong>Ultimate Success Formula</strong></a>. Realize that just because it&#8217;s not working like you think it should, you&#8217;re not a failure. You haven&#8217;t bombed the course. You get as many do-overs as you need.</p>
<p>For my part, here are the mistakes I&#8217;ve made in the wealth-attraction arena. Maybe you can learn from them to make your journey a little less curvy than mine.</p>
<p>So, like I have, <strong>do you make these mistakes in attracting wealth?</strong></p>
<p>Mistake #1: <strong>Closing the door of your mind to money-making opportunities</strong>.</p>
<p>Open your eyes to the fact that wealth is all around you. There is an abundance of money. It&#8217;s everywhere you look, if you&#8217;ll only see it. When an opportunity to make money comes your way, don&#8217;t pooh-pooh it. It came your way for a reason&#8211;<em><strong>because you wanted it to</strong></em>. Recognize that and step into it. It may be an opportunity that you don&#8217;t think would suit you. &#8220;I don&#8217;t want to sell soap.&#8221; Maybe not, but could you learn from some people who&#8217;ve been successful at it? Can you apply their ideas and habits to something else? Keep your eyes&#8211;and your mind&#8211;open.</p>
<p>Mistake #2: <strong>Hanging on to the &#8216;poor&#8217; mentality</strong>.</p>
<p>This, I think, is one of the hardest habits to kick. It shows up when you say to yourself, &#8220;I can&#8217;t afford that.&#8221; And you know what? Your thought becomes the thing. If you just can&#8217;t wrap your head around the idea that it&#8217;s yours if you want it, then at least practice reducing your resistance to the thought. Do the &#8220;wouldn&#8217;t it be nice&#8221; exercise from Ask and It Is Given. Get your thoughts away from the despair of not having, to the hopefulness and joy of <em>maybe</em> having. You might not think that is much of an improvement, but it is. It&#8217;s training your mind to question the permanence of your present situation.</p>
<p>Mistake #3: <strong>Practicing despair instead of gratitude</strong>.</p>
<p>This is what you are doing when your focus is on lack, when you&#8217;re thinking things like, &#8220;When is this going to get better?&#8221;, or &#8220;My life sucks.&#8221;</p>
<p>Begin to focus on, and be grateful for, what you <strong><em>do</em></strong> have. &#8220;Not much,&#8221; you say? I suggest you look around you again. If you&#8217;re reading this, you likely have something that only a small percentage of people in the world have: a computer and an internet connection. It follows from there that it&#8217;s likely that you have a roof over your head, and that you&#8217;re not starving. You probably don&#8217;t have to go to sleep listening to the sounds of mortar rounds and rifle fire, and you probably don&#8217;t have to worry about being the victim of a kidnapping or suicide bomber.</p>
<p>Do you have the faintest conception of how many people in the world <em><strong>don&#8217;t</strong></em> have what you have? Possibly, contemplating that will enable you to whisper a little &#8220;thank you&#8221;, eh?</p>
<p>There&#8217;re more common mistakes, but if you&#8217;re like me, rectifying these will keep you busy for a while. <img src='http://www.thefastlane.info/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Living In The Moment &#8211; Rule Number 6</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2007 14:43:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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<p>It&#8217;s always a challenge for me to live now. To enjoy what&#8217;s here. It seems I&#8217;m always looking ahead to later. Christine Kane reminded me in  <a href="http://christinekane.com/blog/2007/03/23/why-your-ego-loves-airline-delays/">Why Your Ego Loves Airline Delay</a> (unintentionally, I&#8217;m sure, but who knows?) to do what Mac Davis advised so many years ago: stop and smell the roses along the way. I could see myself in her description of what she observed when her plane was delayed:<a href="http://christinekane.com/blog/2007/03/23/why-your-ego-loves-airline-delays/"> </a></p>
<blockquote><p><a href="http://christinekane.com/blog/2007/03/23/why-your-ego-loves-airline-delays/"></a>I paid attention to the people around me as we de-planed. I listened to what they were saying. I heard the following words and phrases: “Well, this day is ruined.” “They’ve screwed me out of an entire day.” “Ridiculous.” “I hate small planes.” “I hate Charlotte Airport.” “Ridiculous!” “This sucks.” “Five f-ing hours!” “I should’ve just gone to Chicago.” “Ridiculous.”</p></blockquote>
<p>Reading it reminded me of a story I read in Dr. Wayne Dyer&#8217;s book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html%3FASIN=1401902162%26tag=sawtoothgraph-20%26lcode=xm2%26cID=2025%26ccmID=165953%26location=/o/ASIN/1401902162%253FSubscriptionId=1N9AHEAQ2F6SVD97BE02">The Power of Intention</a>:</p>
<p style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em"><span style="font-style: italic">Two prime ministers are sitting in a room discussing affairs of state. Suddenly a man bursts in, apoplectic with fury, shouting and stamping and banging his fist on the desk. The resident prime minister admonishes him: &#8220;Peter,&#8221; he says, &#8220;kindly remember Rule Number 6,&#8221; whereupon Peter is instantly restored to complete calm, apologizes, and withdraws. The politicians return to their conversation, only to be interupted yet again twenty minutes later by an hysterical woman gesticulating wildly, her hair flying. Again the intruder is greeted with the words: &#8220;Marie, please remember Rule Number 6.&#8221; Complete calm descends once more, and she too withdraws with a bow and an apology. When the scene is repeated for a third time, the visiting prime minister addresses his colleague: &#8220;My dear friend, I&#8217;ve seen many things in my life, but never anything as remarkable as this. Would you be willing to share with me the secret of Rule Number 6?&#8221; &#8220;Very simple,&#8221; replies the resident prime minister. &#8220;Rule Number 6 is &#8216;Don&#8217;t take yourself so damn seriously.&#8217;&#8221; &#8220;Ah,&#8221; says his visitor, &#8220;that is a fine rule.&#8221; After a moment of pondering, he inquires, &#8220;And what, may I ask, are the other rules?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;There aren&#8217;t any.&#8221;</span></p>
<p>Stop taking myself so seriously. When I do that, my day seems to go a little better. Why don&#8217;t I do it more often? Like all the time? Something to work a little more on, maybe?</p>
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		<title>The Secrets of My Success</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Mar 2007 20:48:39 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Pam at <a href="http://makethemostofu.com/template_permalink.asp?id=203">Make the Most of U</a> wrote a great response (and tagged me in the process) to <a href="http://todayisthatday.com/blog/simply-successful-secrets/">Aaron Potts&#8217; request for &#8216;Simply Successful Secrets&#8217;</a>, an interactive research project that he&#8217;s started (which also included me, I see, but I missed the request somehow).</p>
<p>I really like seeing discussions like this, because when I start to think about the questions, I notice areas in my thinking that could use improvement or even complete overhaul.</p>
<p>Take success, for instance. When I first thought about how I would respond, my initial thought was, &#8220;I can&#8217;t answer this. <em>I&#8217;m not successful.</em>&#8221; Then I proceeded to list to myself all the reasons why I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;m successful (remember—the mind will give what you ask of it): there&#8217;s bills that aren&#8217;t paid because I&#8217;m not taking the actions that I should take business-wise because my brain is so messed up and there&#8217;s so much baggage that I can&#8217;t get around because I&#8217;ve tried everything I know and nothing&#8217;s worked because I&#8217;m no good at this stuff because I don&#8217;t try hard enough because I&#8217;m not worth anything&#8230;</p>
<p>Short story is I let myself go way off the deep end. After I realized what I was doing (it took a while, I&#8217;m not perfect), I made a herculean effort to change my internal conversation. &#8220;When I am successful, what do I do?&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Nothing. You&#8217;re not successful.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Shut up. I am too. Get back in your cave, little man. Brain: what do I do when I&#8217;m successful?&#8221;</p>
<p>After some back and forth, the angelic little man on my other shoulder (<em>remember the football field scene in &#8216;Animal House&#8217;?</em>) told me things that I do when I&#8217;m being successful. So here&#8217;s my list, in no particular order:</p>
<p><strong>1. I <em>am.</em></strong></p>
<p class="indent">This is the &#8216;being&#8217; part of the <em>have, do, or be anything you want</em> in goal setting. It&#8217;s not exactly what most goal-setting coaches have in mind when they say it, but I think it comes first. Before you have and do the things that the person you want to be has and does, first you have to <em><strong>be </strong></em>that person in your mind. If you don&#8217;t know how that person would be, find someone you can model. Or find several people and take the best qualities of each.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html%3FASIN=0761510575%26tag=sawtoothgraph-20%26lcode=xm2%26cID=2025%26ccmID=165953%26location=/o/ASIN/0761510575%253FSubscriptionId=1N9AHEAQ2F6SVD97BE02" title="The Greatest Networker In The World"><img src="http://ec1.images-amazon.com/images/P/0761510575.01._SCMZZZZZZZ_.gif" align="right" width="90" /></a><strong>2. I read daily.</strong></p>
<p class="indent">I read constantly. Books, blogs, etc. Used to be, before I was successful, I read fiction books. I was absolutely hooked on action/suspense books. Tom Clancy, Dan Brown, J.D. Robb, etc. I still read those occasionally, when I want a little break. But now I read things that help me reach for new possibilities. As a matter of fact, part of my herculean effort above was to read. I read, front to back, a book named <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html%3FASIN=0761510575%26tag=sawtoothgraph-20%26lcode=xm2%26cID=2025%26ccmID=165953%26location=/o/ASIN/0761510575%253FSubscriptionId=1N9AHEAQ2F6SVD97BE02"><em>The Greatest Networker In The World</em></a>, by John Milton Fogg. It was intended as a training tool for network marketers, but is more of a training tool for life and life changes. I highly recommend it.</p>
<p><strong>3. I exercise regularly.</strong></p>
<p class="indent">Lately, <em>irregularly </em>would be a better description, but I still do. My little spider-bite ordeal kept me from being as active as I like to be, but I have substantially recovered from that so it&#8217;s not as inhibiting. I go to the Y a minimum of 4 times a week; more if I can get there. Sometimes I work on the stair machines and treadmill, sometimes walking on the track, sometimes swimming. When the kids go, it&#8217;s all swimming. That&#8217;s the best workout I get, truthfully. My kids could wear me out!</p>
<p><strong>4. I spend time with my goals.</strong></p>
<p class="indent">I&#8217;m building on my vision board, which resides on the wall to the left of my computer monitors. I have my goals written down (do you?), and I spend some time throughout the day visualizing them, sometimes modifying them if they&#8217;re not quite right.</p>
<p><strong>5. I spend time with myself.</strong></p>
<p class="indent">In the morning, I make a special point to think about the things in my life that I&#8217;m thankful for. If I can&#8217;t think of more than 4 or 5, I know it&#8217;s time for an attitude adjustment. I also take an hour or two each day to read, to work with a Neuro-Programming program I picked up, and some time in my version of meditation. I&#8217;m not very good at the meditation thing yet, but the NP program is helping that. I&#8217;m finding it challenging to quiet my mind. It seems like it&#8217;s always going. During meditation, I accept the thoughts that enter, dismiss them, only to find that another has taken its place. Meditation is a work in progress for me.</p>
<p><strong>6. I do something to <a href="http://www.sawtoothid.com">promote my business</a>.</strong></p>
<p class="indent">One of the areas that I could do better in. This, truthfully, is where a lot of my personal work is taking place. Talking to people, learning to be comfortable in selling situations, just doing something. My comfort zone has not included direct interaction with other people. So, I&#8217;m improving that, little by little.</p>
<p><strong>7. I spend time with my family.</strong></p>
<p class="indent">Part of this is necessity: we homeschool our kids, and that does take a chunk of time during the day. There&#8217;s also piano lessons, recitals, nightly reading, RC airplanes, and of course our twice-weekly jaunts to the YMCA. I used to be a hermit in the computer room, and my family life suffered. Now it&#8217;s better. Focus, you know.</p>
<p><strong>So&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>&#8230;while I&#8217;m not yet what most would term wildly successful in some areas, that will show up in it&#8217;s good time, when I&#8217;m ready for it. I understand that. All I can do is what I know &mdash; then watch, and adjust.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s all any of us can do.</p>
<p>Thanks Pam and Aaron for the shoulder tap. I&#8217;m not going to tag anyone specifically, but I would enjoy comments and linkbacks telling me what YOU are doing to be successful in your life. If you don&#8217;t think you are, tell me what you would be doing <em><strong>if you were</strong></em> successful.</p>
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		<title>The Law of Attraction bites</title>
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<p>I suppose it&#8217;s not really the Law of Attraction, but a law of consequences. Still&#8211;a particular consequence doesn&#8217;t actually have to take place, does it? So that does make it <strong><em>the Law of Attraction at work</em></strong>, doesn&#8217;t it?</p>
<p>So a long time ago, I had a filling fall out of a tooth. I didn&#8217;t take care of it like I should&#8217;ve. A dentist visit for me is a traumatic experience&#8211;sweats, nausea, dizzyness. Yeah, I know it&#8217;s all in my head. But I haven&#8217;t been able to shake it as yet.</p>
<p>Friday afternoon I notice this tooth feeling a little funny. &#8220;I need to get that taken care of,&#8221; I think to myself. &#8220;Soon.&#8221;</p>
<p><em>Soon </em>came Sunday morning about 5am. Through Friday night and all day Saturday, it had been getting worse. Swelling, with some pain. Whoops. Abscess. I did what I could from home, with some herbs and such, but it wasn&#8217;t even holding it at bay. So when I woke Sunday morning about 4:30 and my face was so swollen one of my eyes was shut, I knew there was no waiting until Monday.</p>
<p>Turns out I was right. The doc said that had I not come in when I did, the infection likely would have entered my main sinus cavity and that would have been <strong><em>bad news</em></strong>. So I got a very painful antibiotic shot in the butt (still hurts on Monday afternoon, 36 hours later), along with a prescription for horse-pill-sized Augmentin. Isn&#8217;t there anything a little less expensive? Whew!</p>
<p>So the swelling is going down, but the infection opened up a hole in my gums where half of the stuff is now draining. Geez. Saltwater mouthwashes every 20 minutes or so&#8211;more if I could stand it. And the nausea of the potent antibiotic isn&#8217;t helping much.</p>
<p>Still, the sun is shining, it&#8217;s 60+ degrees, and I&#8217;m still breathing. That&#8217;s something, isn&#8217;t it?</p>
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		<title>What planet are you on anyway?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jan 2007 15:48:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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