Do you really know what you want? Or do you just know what you don’t want?
Big difference here. Major. Profound.
You don’t want to wear the red shirt to the party tonight. What do you want to wear?
You don’t want the bills any more. What do you really want?
You don’t want to be fat. What do you really want?
Get clear what it is you do want
This is so important. You’re putting your order into the warehouse. “Don’t send me this.”
Does the warehouse ping you back and ask, “Okay, what should I send you?”. Nope. It just takes your order. But it loses the “Don’t” part. It doesn’t work on “do” and “don’t”. It just works on “send me this”.
So get clear on your goals–what you want. You have to be focused here on what you want. You want prosperity, not ‘to get out of debt’. You want fitness and vitality, not ‘to not be fat’. You want confidence and enthusiasm, not ‘to not be afraid’.
Easier said than done, but it’s vital to your success that you get it done this way. If you keep thinking in “don’t wants”, that’s what you’re still going to be getting.
Work on it. Master it. It will change your life. Guaranteed.